Need advice on my gf fast (kissing)?

ok so me and my gf have been going out for about 2 months now. we went on our 3rd date today saw leatherheads it was horrible so we just left halfway. but anyways during the movie i asked to hold her hand and she said she had a cold but i didnt care obviously. i doubt she even had one. she said she would feel bad if i got it. and then later on my friend texted me asking if i made out with her. i told her about it trying to bring up the subject and she said ew gross. it really hurt my feelings because i was gona make the 1st move and kiss her but now my self esteem is down the drain. should i go for it next time cuz i think 2 months is too long without ur 1st kiss. if so how should i go about it? i know this is realy long but im just lost and i think im gona cry myself to sleep tonight..i really care for her..all help is really appreciatedNeed advice on my gf fast (kissing)?
aw thats so sweet!!! i think honestly the problem isnt you, though. I think she may either be A) afraid or embarrassed to try anything cuz she mite not want to disappoint you or be bad at it B) she just feels really awkward or C) she isnt ready for hand holding, kissing, etc or D) all of the above





its so great you care so much about her; id die for someone like you! i would say your best bet is to talk to her about it. I know it might be awkward but thats the only way ur gona get things straight. Be really kind and gentle and just ask her what physical things she's okay with doing. and sometimes, its easier to have a conversation like this over texting, maybe calling, because it automatically takes away the awkward silences, embarrasment, etc. I wouldnt try anything with her unless she thinks its okay. Also, you could get one of her friends to ask her. like they can be al, ';what do you imagine your 1st kiss being like?'; or ';how do you think you may want your 1st kiss with (your name) to be?'; anyways, i hope i helped! good luck with everything :)Need advice on my gf fast (kissing)?
Wow, you really care for this girl. And that's really sweet. Don't find those kinda guys often.





And I know kissing is sometimes a hard subject to talk about with your girlfriend. I'm just so happy me and my boyfriend are comfortable with that subject. We've been going out for two months in one week. We've already had our first kiss together, and we even have talked about making out. Just don't let that discourage you. But anyways, I just don't think your girlfriend is quite ready. She just moves slow in relationships. You on the other hand take it steady but not to fast which is good. (I like to take it fast and so does my boyfriend, which is good for us. Not that this helps you). Or, I'm sorry to say, she's losing interest in you. -OR- She's just too shy to make the first move and is worried about you making the first move.
Doesn't sound like your girl is into it, give it time, when the time is right you will know. Hang in there!
dude how old r u???


if shes gonna b immature and a btch about it is she even worth being with.


yeh 2 months is a long time. make a move n if she backs out dump her, its not fair to u and shes actin like a child and obviously not ready for a relationship
I think you just need a little bit more patience. She will probably come around later.
i think you should give it a little bit of time, but maybe within the next month try going for it. but the first time, you should give her a soft, simple, and sweet kiss before trying to make out or anything. maybe the only reason she said that it was gross was because she doesn't like huge public displays of affection like that. see how she does with a first kiss. best of luck!