How do I KISS a GUY...any advice for me?

I kissed a guy three times already, who keeps telling me I need to loosen my lips and relax. I can鈥檛. I don鈥檛 know how. Any advice for this poor really bad kisser?How do I KISS a GUY...any advice for me?
1.Chat the boy up. Establish a sense of trust between the two of you, perhaps by telling him a secret about you that no one else knows [just make sure it isn't a secret that may turn him off or make him feel awkward or disgusted by you], or just by talking nicely to him.


2.Flirt. Smile a lot, touch your hair, do whatever you think will let him know that you're interested and are happy around him. Hopefully, it will make him more comfortable and want to be around you more often.


3.Be forward about your feelings and tell him how you feel. He will get the point that you like him. Don't be shy because then he won't follow through. If you like him, make it clear without feeling so desperate. What are you going to gain by acting excessively hard to get and making him feel like he hasn't got a chance; he'll just get tired of it and move on and you'll both miss out!


4.Break the touch barrier. The first step towards kissing is touching. Make any excuse to touch his arm, his hands, or his face. A lot of guys like holding hands. Hugging is encouraged!


5.Find the right moment. This is something you will feel when you know it's right. Often times this is after a nice evening and it is winding down.


6.Start slow. If you make the first move, give him a peck on the cheek and slowly work your way to the lips when you feel the time is right.


7.Afterwards, say nothing and wait for the reaction. If he is surprised (or terrified) take no enemies, and kiss him again. If he is pleased, great. If he is angry, then abort the situation - no one would like someone to keep on trying to kiss that person if they're uncomfortable. You should be mature enough to step back. Otherwise, move on to the next step.


8.Pull back and look down, then look into his eyes. If he liked the kiss you'll most likely kiss again. Look at his lips, he will get the signal you want more!


9.If this continues for awhile, maybe you should try moving onto a more passionate kiss. Then kiss him one last time then touch his lips back!


10.When you're done, laying down is one thing to do and not talk.


11.Don't start making-out with him right after your first kiss.


12.Guys like kissing, there's no doubt. Sometimes you have to make the first move to break that awkward silence.


13.If he doesn't like you then he doesn't, try and get over it. Depending on the guy sometimes showing compassion will get him back.


14.If he takes you away from the crowd or to a quiet place while at a dance or the movies that's him asking for it.


15.If you make him feel comfortable he will make the first move!


16.Direct your attention to someone else, slowly look at him, then deep into his eyes, then very slowly move your face toward his if he slowly backs up make it look like you saw something in his hair or if you are the brave type just move fast and kiss him.


17.If a guy is always hugging you and/or putting his arm around you then he definitely likes you and wants to kiss you. He is just nervous and wants you to make the first move.


18.DON'T think too much! Just think about him... a.k.a. how great he looks, how happy you are when you are with him. See the things such as is he caring, funny, fun to hang with.


19.Make sure the guy isn't nervous about it. That will make the tension crazy!


20.Don't be too hesitant, if you're both leaning in for a kiss, don't pull away! it will make it look like you don't want to kiss him!


21.Also remember that many boys are shy. If there is something between you two, and you still haven't kissed, it means he wants to, but is shy or nervous.


22.Use the K.I.S.S statement Keep It Simple Stupid!





Isn't this da best answer???How do I KISS a GUY...any advice for me?
well i mean, if you need to loosen your lips and relax.. then... are you nervous when you kiss him? just take a deep breath and don't pucker your lips like a model (you know that pout i'm talking about, right? the lip gloss pout?)


just let your lips be relaxed, almost like normal, and at first just press your lips against his lightly, then if you keep kissing then shape your lips a little more and put your bottom lip under his top lip, and your top lip above HIS top lip, and kiss him that way gently... it's kind of like you're biting his top lip, but with your lips instead of your teeth..


guys love that, it's a hot kiss :]


good luck!


and dont be too nervous, you'll get better :D
ain't no such thing as a poor kisser just practice on your pillow or you teddy bear ...be comfortable Hunny ... just kiss the boy ...
Go on youtube. Search for How to Kiss.
it should just come naturally, obviously your not with the right guy