FIRST KISS advice and help?

in a month, i'll be 16. and i haven't kissed a guy yet. i've been talkin to this guy. he likes me and i like him, we know that. we talk a lot, and we're planning on hanging out this weekend. he's asked me if i kiss on the first date, asked how far ive gone with a guy, and everything he needs to know to make it go smoothly. he also said that hes gonna try to kiss me.





i dont know what to do.... or if im ready?





help, please!!!FIRST KISS advice and help?
first off, relax. :)


no one on the internet is going to be able to tell you if you are ready. that is all you. if you feel like you want to then do it.


as far as advice goes, don't think about it or analyze it. kissing is totally natural, you just get better as it happens more. it is kinda interesting that he told you he was going to kiss you, but... i guess thats cool.


don't freak out, and don't make a kissy face you when go into it. not cool. just flow. it'll all work out. everything always does.FIRST KISS advice and help?
well you want to start out a little slow, get to know the guy before you make any big moves like making out and stuff like that. Its all up to you if you are ready, if you feel comfortable with the guy then go for it, just be cautios dont let him go to far. If you dont like something dont feel pressured to do it. He needs to respect you as a person not as a toy.
If you feel you're not ready, just be honest with him. He'll respect you for it. And if you feel you /are/ ready, tell him that. Ask yourself if you feel like he's the right guy. Be ready to do some serious soul-searching to find if you're ready.
plant one on him right now big boy ........ have fun with it and don't be scared..... you don't need advice this is r first kiss make it how u want it to be!!!
well do you want to hurry and get your first kiss over with or do you want to keep the pressure on until the next guy? not to sound like an *** but if you like him as much as you say go for it, just close your eye and lean in
Well. Think about how much you like him. You sure you want him to be the one? If your not ready, you can say so. If he's a good friend or boyfriend, he'll respect that. You can only know this weekend.
Awhhhhhhhhh that's sooooo cuteeeee!!!!!!! I'd be scared too.. especially since he plans on planting one on you. Hmmm just tell him RIGHT before.. and then it will be soo cuttttteee!! cuz then he'll know your nervous.. and that will boost his confidence.
Just try not to worry and let it happen (of course if you aren't ready meaning you don't want to kiss...that would be something to tell him).
If you're 16, kissing is NOT big deal. If you like him, then you're ready!


Just...let him kiss you and mirror him.
Kiss him with your other pair of lips
just follow what he does and by the end you will get it.....its like a first dance really scary until you walk in :)
take it nice and slow
Before the Kiss





1. Get your lips in proper kissing order. The most kissable lips are smooth and sweet, not dry, chapped and tense. The guidelines in will help both men and women make their lips look more attractive and inviting. Here are the basics:





* Exfoliate your lips with sugar to make them soft.


* Moisturize your lips to keep them soft.


* Relax your lips by parting them ever so slightly.


2. Look inviting and approachable! You might not realize that you've giving off a ';leave me alone'; vibe, so read up on. Uncross those arms, keep your hands away from your face, make eye contact, and smile! Similarly, read his or her body language - is this person into you? Or do they seem uncomfortable?


3.


Break the ';touch barrier.'; Touch the person lightly on the arm or shoulder when you're talking. Just make it a quick, innocent touch and don't make a big deal out of it. Holding hands is also a good way to break the touch barrier. (Guys, you may want to read for more ideas on how to break the touch barrier without overstepping boundaries.) If everything is going well, try kissing the person on the cheek. If you find your lips near their ear (like if you're hugging someone from behind, or whispering something to them) go in for a gentle kiss on the cheek and see how they respond.


4.


Look at their lips. Make eye contact and then move your gaze briefly down to the person's lips. Then move your eyes back up to meet theirs and smile demurely. You don't have to be really obvious about it. Many people will take the hint, especially if they've read one of the many articles that lists this as a sign that a person wants to kiss or be kissed.


5.


Approach for the kiss. Depending on your starting position you may need only to turn your head, or you may need to lean in a bit. You may want to use your hands to gently urge your partner鈥檚 body or head into position鈥攜ou just want to guide his or her movement a little, you don鈥檛 want to forcibly move any part of his or her body or hold your partner in an uncomfortable position鈥攂ut in general you just want to position yourself correctly and let your partner meet you. As you near your partner鈥檚 lips, maintain eye contact.








The Gentle Lip Lock





1. As your lips make contact with theirs, pucker them slightly and close your eyes. If you ';overpucker'; your lips will become tense, which is better for the platonic peck (described below), not for romance.


2.


Kiss your partner's upper or lower lip gently, then pull away slightly. Put about an inch or 3 cm between you and your partner's lips.


3. Open your eyes. Once your gaze meets theirs, smile a little and decide whether or not to go for another kiss. If things are going well, move on to the next step. Or if one or both of you think that's enough for today, pull away, smile, and shift your gaze elsewhere.


4. Kiss your partner's upper or lower lip again, but this time part your lips so that their lip goes between yours. Apply a little bit of pressure closing your lips as you pull away. You can practice on the length of your finger to get an idea for how much pressure to apply. You can also gently pinch one of your lips between your index finger and thumb to see how it feels to have someone kiss you in this way.


5. Switch to the other lip. If you were kissing their uppper lip, now go to their lower lip, and vice versa. Ideally, as you kiss someone's upper lip, they're kissing your lower lip, and vice versa, and you can go on like this for quite some time, alternating with closed lip kisses.