Ok well first of i am going out with this guy..{not going to mention names.] and we have been to movies and stuff like that and its been a month since we first dated. He told me he wants to kiss me and when he tries i reject him because i have never kissed anyone before.And i really want to but im just worried that i will make a fool out of myself if i screw up the kiss. And yeah so please help!!!
p.s. he has kissed other girls before.Kissing??! Ok i will admit it im 14. But i really need some advice!!!?
ahhh same thing happend to me.
just let him be in control and go with it.. i don't know much more i could tell you.. but here are some tips: when your making out write watermellon with your tounge or if thats too much just like spell your name with your tounge.
have fun :) good luck!Kissing??! Ok i will admit it im 14. But i really need some advice!!!?
this is normal babe, kisses are really nothing to worry about. and expecially first kisses, everyone makes a big deal about them but usually they arnt anything special. the best first kisses are the kisses with the guys you realy love.
now advice for this boy, relax. when your kissing you can tell if someone is tense or not. just remeber to be calm. let him know youve never kissed for real before, belive me guys think thats cute. and let him lead.
good luckk :)
tilt your head to the right and move slowly. kiss slowly as well so that if you think you are making a mistake you can correct it without any major slip ups happening. always gotta make sure to purse your lips but not too much otherwise you look like a moron but only purse them when you are pretty close in for the kiss. make sure he isnt going to tongue you aswell.
i know exactly how u feel. when i was 13, i went through the same thing!
my 1st ';boyfriend'; had kissed a bunch of grls b4 me, and i was so scared i was going to look stupid. so when he went in for our 1st kiss, i was expecting it to me just a little peck...yea it wasnt lol
he went straight for my tounge lol and i had NO IDEA what to do, so i just copied wha he was doing to be and later on that night , his brother told me that i was the best kisser that he had ever had :) so just copy what he does in ur mouth lol :)
good luck :)
oh, and if he's a jerk about it afterword, like he tells u ur a horrible kisser then kick his *** to the curb :)
You could just tell him you never kissed a guy before and don't expect much or heck if you wanna be flirty about it tell him to teach you.
Just relax. When you feel ready and the moment is right, you'll know what to do.
just go in for it. i used to think that and come to find out, all the guys say i am the best they have had. lol! anyways.. just go for it.
ok first of all if your willing to try, then practice on your hand alittle bit! it really helps. But really if he just wants to kiss then just pucker ur lips and tilt your headto the right and if you want close your eyes... But if he wants to kiss more intamintly, then tell him the truth that you have never frenched, never made out, and that he is thefirst boy you ever kissed. He will probably understand and he will actually probably wanna be the person to teach you and will probably wanna be the first boy to kiss you. It will actually probably make him nerves and make him kiss better than usual because he doesn't want to mess it up. I no trust me!
Good Luck!
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