Kissing. Techniques? Help? Advice?

Okay, I don't want anyone to think I'm like some 13 year old sex-addict or anything, but when the time comes, I need to be prepared for my first kiss. I read a technique in a book--you mouth the word OLIVE. But is there anything else? I googled it but it everything I found wasn't exactly what I was looking for. Help???Kissing. Techniques? Help? Advice?
Some good tips here, it should apply to us girls too:





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Mouthing the word olive, first, is not quite right, since it uses your teeth too much. Don't be pushing your teeth up against the guy's lips too much. That'll gross him out.





Also, the method of passionate kissing you're thinking of only works if both people are aware that its the way its going to happen. If you're picturing a grab and he's picturing more of a smooch, you're just going to end up with your mouth half-open on his closed lips. A real failkiss.





Your first kiss is pretty much gonna suck no matter what. Just let it be what it is. Even if its just awkwardly pressing your lips up against his the first time, you'll get better at it.





PS: For a 13 year old on the internet, your grammar and spelling is quite good. Not perfect or anything, but it doesn't look to me like you were even trying. Just all natural. Nice :D
start with soft kisses .... try to stick you lips between his upper lip then the bottom one and vise versa a couple of times he will try to do the same if he knows DONT PUCKER UP that is so elementary ..... when your ready to move to next base start by slowly sticking your toung just a little bit to touch his lips so he knows you want to use tounges if he picks up he will open up his mouth.... you will feel his mouth open your mouth that's when you stick your tounge in try to touch his tounge but just the tip then pull it back and kiss his lips then go back in and start playing with his tounge ... play tounge wrestle not so aggresive unless you want too not him but you its to your pleasure dont get sucked to doing what he want but whay you feel good.... BUT ALWAYS BREATHE through your nose dont hold you breath or you will begin to drewl and that is bad... tilt your head to one side where you nose doesnt get on the way of his nose... and have fun but make sure you breath!!! good luck
First of all, don't stress so much...you don't really need to be prepared...there are a lot of people who have had lots of kissing experience and are horrible kissers, some are just naturally good at it i guess...but everyone has their own opinions...someone may think a guy is a great kisser but someone else disagrees...it is all subjective. I don't know where you got this OLIVE thing from...but I think it would be a lot to have to concentrate on spelling when you are trying to enjoy your first kiss. Just close your eyes...kiss softly on the mouth with your lips slightly open. If he is receptive, then you might start to put your tongue in his mouth. You don't want to move your tongue so it is like a snake's tongue...darting in and out...yuck. Don't stick your tongue all the way in his mouth or down his throat gagging him. If you aren't sure what to do...you can always just follow where his lips go. Some people like faster kissing, some like slower...if he is really unhappy with your kissing he will probably tell you to do it differently or he may push you away a lil bit to get you to slow down...and that makes things easier for you. This is the kind of thing that is really out of your control no matter how hard you may plan for this moment. Don't be surprised if your first kiss is a little awkward...for most people they are.
Hahah im sure after this you will get all sorts of answers. For first kisses, some prefer closed and short. If you want to use tongue, (your choice) my boyfriend and i tried spelling words with your tongue while kissing. It sorta worked but it sorta felt like i was playing swords with him. Awkward indeed.
Worrying is the worst thing. If you worry about it, you're not ready yet. When the time comes, it will come naturally(olive or no olive). I'm glad nobody told me that one, I had my first kiss at 18 and I would have burst into laughter. Maybe you should forget about olive.
Sorry, but you can never be ready for that first kiss, every person kisses differently and the first kiss is ALWAYS nerve-racking. Start out with a few pecks and get a feel for what will happen and then go for it!
So does this make you a 14 year old sex-addict? Sorry..but jw...





Definately just mouthed olive to myself and I suppose you could use that technique. But honestly just relax, start slow and go with the flow, you'll figure it out.
You don't know how to kiss, but your body does. Meaning, when the time comes, you'll kick into gear. Don't worry about it.





Mouthing ';olive'; looks just like mouthing ';I love you'; (try it).





Cheers
hmm wow that is a good technique. olive... lol im 13 too. and all i gotta say is make sure your lips are relaxed and your tongue is not pointed. just kinda of lick his tonuge.
there's really no ';techniques'; to be a good kisser, kissing comes naturally to everybody.


you'll see when the time comes !! =]