Tuesday, July 27, 2010

I Need Advice on Dating, Kissing, and Being Short!?

I am currently dating this guy and for about oh, 5 days. We are both 13 and want to go somewhere parents will approve of, we can fake going with a friend, and somewhere easy to get to. What kind of place would you suggest. Also, we talk over the phone A LOT! Any types for flirting over the phone? Also he is just about 6 feet tall and I am just under 5 feet. How am I gonna make the move for the first kiss? Ok, thanks!I Need Advice on Dating, Kissing, and Being Short!?
While I'm not sure about the rest of this as far as the kissing thing goes....





1. Judo manuals are wonderful things for a little technique called the leg sweep. This is for if you are both standing. For a right hand dominate person you want to grab both of his shoulders when you are facing him directly. Then take your right leg and step across his legs and behind his right leg while keeping your torso faced towards him though maybe a little to the right of his center. Swing your right leg quickly into the back of his right leg, making sure to get contact above the back of the knee or doing most of the impact on his ankle. This will cause him to fall backwards which you can control descent and placement because you have his shoulders and you will have, hopefully'; picked out a good landing spot. At this point he is now wondering what you are doing, a little dazed, and at a level you don't have to reach so much. You can also halt his descent before he is on the ground.





This is a great technique for making an impression but a little complicated.





If you want to go for something a little less original, just make sure the both of you are sitting together on a couch and then lean over and drag his head towards you, make sure one of your heads is a little turned so your noses don't get in the way.





However, I should warn you about this.





1. Don't do anything like this until you are very certain it will be appreciated and reciprocated. Loyalty isn't just, ';will he not cheat on me?'; its ';will he not leave me?'; Guys can burn quick and then burn out. If you try to hold on to him too strongly your relationship may well end fast because he may want his own space.





2. Parks are nice areas to go to. Or go to a friend's house and watch a movie or something and arrange with the friend that they will leave for a certain time period at a certain point.I Need Advice on Dating, Kissing, and Being Short!?
first off - go to a movie, mini golf (that's always cute), or actually go to a friend's house. you're 13... don't go anywhere dumb just because you think you're grownup enough to go.


Also the phone thing - there's not really a guide to phone flirting... just be natural, and if you really feel the need, kind of whine when he says he has to go or something, and say you could talk to him all night...


The shortness thing - wait until you're sitting down and look over at him then just go for it. or tell him like ';hey buddy, i really wanna kiss you but your too tall'; (i'm only 5';2 and all my b/fs have been at least 6';0 but it always seemed to work out)


again.. you're 13, dont put so much pressure on yourself. 5 days is like a world record for a 13 yr old relationship.
go bowling...movies...or idk the roller rink lol well i have a problem with that issue cuz i am 13 too and my parents let me go like NOWHERE without them





and about the whole short thing talk to him and like ask him to likehelp you look threw a stack of papers or something that is low and when he is down there and if the time feels right then make your move...i have the same problem with my bf i am like 5'2'; and he is like 6' and well when we hug i go up and he goes down lol

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