I need advice on kissing?!?

well...i know it sounds stupid but on saturday its going to be my first real kiss and i dont know what to do. I know people say that it comes naturally but i have tried and i doesnt for me. Any tips please...??


Thank youI need advice on kissing?!?
Emma, Emma, Emma! Honestly!


Everyone asks this!





When it happens, it's just so natural.





You won't even think about it. It's like walking, talking, eating, sleeping.


It just comes soooo naturally!!! Honest.





When it happens, you just lean in, close your eyes(if you want to)


then start slowly kissing, then it will HONESTLY be natural progression from there.





There's not alot else to say than that.I need advice on kissing?!?
If you trust them and feel really comfotable with them then its always best that way, because i know its not what you want to hear but it does come naturally, especialy if its with someone you like and genuinely have feelings for... also if its with someone you trust even if you do something like bump noses! or something you can just laugh it off... normally things go wrong when you start to worry or stress over it, and when it isn't the right time. a first kiss should be when the time is right, not planned or forced or ';schedueld';.


Make sure you've brushed your teeth so your feeling confident and use a good lip balm (but dont apply too much!) start by just little gentle soft kisses and take it from there, thats much more romantic and speacial than just going straight into a full on smooch.. and you'll get more used to being so close and intimate to someone that way and really be able to stay incontrol of what your doing, you'll get more confident with it i promise. It does come naturally, and everyone has to go through this, i wish you the best of luck!
This is just killing me... how on earth did you end of scheduling a kiss sweetie? Are you both just really busy?


It WILL come naturally, you'll just have to try to relax. The thing about a first kiss to remember is that HE is going to be nervous too. And he's not going to care too much about your kissing skills, he'll just be excited about getting kissed!


That said, dont be nervous to make yourself comfortable or move if you're uncomfortable, if you're making about and you need a little break to breath then take one, and if you like how he kisses then let him know. :)
firstly, don't panic. and it's true that it does come naturally, so just go with the flow and let things happen as they come. if this guy really likes you, then he wont care if you're not an amazing kisser, just remember that he probably is as nervous as you are.





RELAX and enjoy the kiss. it's your first kiss, so it'll always be special for you. slowly tilt your head before your lips meet and try to keep the same rhythm as him while you kiss. follow him and what he does.





but trust me, it really does come naturally. kissing is meant to be fun, not stressful!





hope this helps :) good luck!
ok.





It is normal to be nervous about your first kiss, you want to make sure that you know what you are doing, so not to embarrass yourself.





keep this in mind:





have some gum handy, it is tastier than toothpaste.





Make sure that you do not have any BO.





Do not be nervous, if you do, your hands may become sweaty.





Do not over think the kissing.





Practice makes perfect. Let him take the lead, and follow along, copy his kissing.





Guys love to have their bottom lip bit, so try this after you get the initial idea of kissing to perfection.





What to do you with your hands?





you can touch the side of his face, or place your hand on his shoulder.





Best Of Wishes!
Make it simple, so the guy doesn't think you're a creep. Than, see his reaction, if he liked it, than take it from there.





When you want to have your first kiss, you'll know when it's the right time. And, when that feeling happens, than don't ignore it.


Don't forget to enjoy it! It's your first real kiss, you'll remember it forever!





GOOD LUCK!
Honestly, have you really tried before and you're just saying that because you dont want people to say ';it comes naturally'; because thats actually true, trust me i would know, for the last couple of months ive been asking the same question and just last weekend i made out with my boyfriend and it really did just come naturally, i just kind of knew what to do. You just need to relax and stop over thinking it, you'll be happy once you do it
Tilt to the right. Lean in slowly. When you get real close, look at the other person's lips. Close your eyes while you're kissing. Take it slow. Don't breathe hard. Don't be messy. Don't slobber on the person. Don't use your tongue on your first one. When you do want to use your tongue, less is best. Don't turn your mouth into a vacuum. Don't pucker (like when you kiss your mom or whatever). Relax and enjoy it!
';I know people say that it comes naturally but i have tried and i doesnt for me.';





That's a total contradiction... if this is your first real kiss then you wouldn't have tried and know that the natural thing doesn't work...





But I'll try to answer. Brush your teeth, keep your mouth relaxed, follow his lead, and don't try to shove your saliva down his throat.





How do you know your first kiss will be this weekend...?
it does come natural but following and all that is good but


a better tip is just stare him in the eye and go for it full throtal


and after a few times of doing it you get better and better.





just remember its and easy concept to get down


dontt over worry yourself hun it will all be ok =]





also try sucking and biting the lip if you get that far =]
Well sweetie I know what it is like to have your first kiss. I know your a little worried but you will be fine. Here is what you can do. Be sure to brush your teeth and use mouth wash. That way your break is minty fresh. Just try not to worry about it. I am sure you will be fine sweetie. It will come to you ok. Just relax
It comes naturally, even if you dont know how to kiss ( I know I dont) he'll lead you. A little piece of advice that my friend told me was: If you're kissing, move your head don't stay in the same position as before...dont know why.





Good Luck!
well it all depends on how you want it. simple or w/tongue.





simple: well i guess you cud put ur mouth to the other persons and move ur lips like ur sucking theirs.





tongue: make it simple at first then slip the tongue in and rotate it around theirs...





hope that was helpful in some weird way lol..


**i kiss better than this**{lol}
ok heres a huge tip some people think eithir if there younger or if its just your first time dont use tongue on the first kiss well **** that use tounge it is the perfect was to a good kiss once they notice you did it they will give you a lil something back
just go along with it!! dont be nervous or shy...its alright i mean i can remember my first kiss when i was younger and beleive me i was nervous but i got over it....and thats what you need to do just dont be shy or get nervous!
Kissing is EASY, nothing to it, unless you don't really like the guy then you have a problem ;] Because it won't be easy.
well i really dnt thinnk dat a first kissed iz planned...It comes wen it comes...Well do wut ur heart rells u 2 do and if u want u coould go along with it..Itz really excitin wen u get ur 1st kiss and itz not planned like dat..He should have just suprised u..
Look hun i had my first kiss when i was 13 and i was really nervous


I hated when everybody said it would come naturally


But when it came to it, It really did


And trust me you cant plan your first kiss


It just happens =]
ok,


what people told you is right, but just do not be shamed of it.


try to be your self, this man or woman is my lover i kiss him or her because i want to not because i must to.


take care
it WILL come naturally.


brush your teeth thoroughly before, tilt your head the opposite way he's going %26amp; all that jazz.


don't worry, it will be fine.
Here is a real tip. No one plans a first kiss because it won't be right. A first kiss just happens naturally.
Follow what he does =]


It DOES come naturally trust me hun.


If in doubt just be a follower, mimick everything he does.
hi how have u tried if its ur first kiss? and jus open ur mouth tilt ur head to the right and its not a bit deal after that really.. not too much toung tho lol
You mean ';kissing'; or ';making out';? I don't see how anyone can really plan a first real kiss, really.
What exactly have you tried on if this is your first ';real'; kiss?
just relax and pucker up!
brush your teeth before hand
Don't try, and I hope you are getting married
Just dnt be concious!!!! this will spoil the whole thing!! Let it go with the flow....All the best.....
just relax and do what he does let him be in control. go with the flow lol