Tuesday, November 22, 2011

First Kiss Advice/ Tips.?

Okay so my first kiss is tomorrow.





im nervous, really nervous.





i have no idea how to kiss.





please help!











anything helpful (preperation, how to tips, anything)





PLEASE.





i really like this guy and i don't want to ruin anything by screwing up the kiss.First Kiss Advice/ Tips.?
*Wait for the right moment.*


There鈥檚 usually no hurry for a kiss, especially a first kiss with someone, so be patient and wait until the mood is right. Some good times are at a romantic movie after or during an on screen kiss, walking in the moonlight, or during a particularly intimate conversation. Wait until the two of you are alone so that the other person will feel more comfortable and so that nobody will see if your attempt to kiss is rejected. Many girls (and guys) don't want to be asked: they prefer that you be confident enough to take a risk and just go for it. One way to do so is to stop whatever you鈥檙e doing and silently look into the person鈥檚 eyes for a moment or two. Touch their face, then gently pull him/her toward you for a kiss. If the person pulls away or hesitates at any time, he or she is not ready for a kiss. If this happens, tell them that you want to give them a hug and go for that.





*Approach for the kiss.*


Approach slowly and smoothly. Depending on your starting position you may need only to turn your head, or you may need to lean in a bit. You may want to use your hands to gently urge your partner鈥檚 body or head into position鈥攜ou just want to guide his or her movement a little, you don鈥檛 want to forcibly move any part of his or her body or hold your partner in an uncomfortable position鈥攂ut in general you just want to position yourself correctly and let your partner meet you. As you near your partner鈥檚 lips, maintain eye contact. You may want to close your eyes after your lips meet to heighten the sensuality of the kiss (and to avoid staring at the pores on his or her face).





*Kiss gently.*


There are many kinds of kisses, from quick pecks to sweet, passionate kisses. There鈥檚 a time and place for all of these, but your first kiss with someone should be gentle and romantic. Don鈥檛 press your mouth onto your partner鈥檚--just let your lips meet--and don鈥檛 try to push your tongue into his or her mouth. When your lips meet, pucker them and give a kiss, then smile and pull away a little, keeping your head close to your partner鈥檚. If your partner moves to kiss you back or seems to like it and doesn鈥檛 pull away, go in for another kiss, this one a little firmer and longer. Put your hands on their face or around their shoulders.





*Make the kiss the reason for the kiss.*


Some people seem to treat kisses as nothing more than a prelude to something else, and will try to quickly move into French kissing. Good kissers concentrate on the kiss, and they kiss, at least seemingly, expecting nothing more. Enjoy the experience, and don鈥檛 move too fast. Live in the moment. You will not kiss as well if your mind is somewhere else. For example, when kissing, try to avoid thoughts like ';What is he/she thinking about?';, ';Do I look good tonight?';, or anything else. Don't be too self-conscious, or have ANY thoughts outside the kiss if you can help it. Instead, concentrate on the way the other person's lips feel against yours.First Kiss Advice/ Tips.?
haha ok first of all he is not going to hate you if your a bad kisser. Feel free to tell him this is your first time and you don't know how this will go... he will probably find that cute.





Kissing comes a lot more natural then you think. But if you MUST practice, try putting the two fingers after your thumb together. Sort of like your making that gun shape thing.... but with two fingers. Anyways just go all out with that.





But this most important thing is to TRY and stop thinking about it. The more you think about it, the more nervous you will be. Whatever happens, happens.





Hope I helped :)
My first kiss came out of nowhere, we were sitting on a park bench and I was just running my mouth off about god knows what and she grabbed me and kissed me mid sentence-the whole time I'm thinking holy crap so this is what kissing is like, I could get used to this! I had no clue what I was doing but it was fun! Bottom line is don't stress about it you will do fine. If you build it up to much you may set your self up for disappointment.
Haha, your first kiss has to be perfectt.


Remember:


_Oral ( Brush Your Teeth!)


_Smell Nice ( I thought this was always important!)





Andd, don't make it seem it's like weirdd.


Make it flow, gently get closer.


And give it a light peck.


And then get all over eachother.





I haven't really been prepared for my first kiss since a guy just went


smashing into my lips.%26lt;3


Haha, good times.


Then yeahh you'll get all over eachother soon and then


the next time would be like ';Hey, (make-out)';


And it's all set for your kisses.


Hope it helped.
1: CALM DOWN! ok i no its a big deal having ur 1st kiss but just don't think about it alot just think possitive! if u have 2 eat comfort food and watch tv! mayb talk to ur friends about their life.. so u get ur mind of the kiss.





2. 2morow: when u see him stay calm and just dont think about it...always think possitive!





3. Make sure ur breath is good: brush ur teeth alot!!! u never no if ur kiss can turn into a makeout.!!! haha





4. When. the perfect time to kiss him is when he looks into your eye and starts leaning.





5. Eyes. when he is looking at u stay calm! and dont freak out and dont break the eye contact until u cant see him eyes anymore.





6. the kiss. during the kiss think of the kiss...not like a freaking out way but in a omg this is gonna b great way..





7. lips. at the very end when u r abouit 2 push away push ur lips 2gether. then separate.





8. the pull away. usually he will b the 1 2 pull away first and no matter wat happenes at the end of the kiss look into his eyes again and if he is looking at u giggle a little bit and smile..if he smiles back that means ur a good kisser..





9. Repeat. if u do that with every guy u kiss i bet u $10000000 that they will all think u r a good kisser.





10. if he isnt a good kisser. If he isn't a good kisser thats a problem but just make him feel good and smile but don't make eye contact! eye contact means everything!





hope i could help!
How odd that your first kiss is scheduled ;-) I would have to say just to go with it. A few tips though, Kiss gently at first and let the kiss take itself deeper gradually, and try not to sloppy ei he has to wipe off his saliva moustach afterwards!
u shud NEVER plan a kiss...NEVER everything that can go wrong will go wrong if u plan a kiss. other than that kissing is something soooooooo natural. i remember i was always worried too, but when my time came it was just perfect and my partner who happened to be experienced thought i was too!
Kissing is not a Bigdeal..And For real what is a ';Kiss'; ? People use the Word ';kiss'; All the time, All you do is put your lips to another persons lips..And..Move them..Kinda stupid.. Anyway thats just me and good luck hun.





:D
Just relax. Remember that all first kisses are a little akward. Kissing can't really be taugh thought. You just have to learn by experience.Once you start kissing just go with your intincts and you'll be fine. Good luck!
Don't be so nervous. Just do what you think is right. And hey, if you mess it up, you can always just say you need more practice with him!
Eyes Closed.


Dont be to aggresive.


Be passionate =]


Not to fast


if your making out,


Make sure not to open your mouth to wide.


otherwise it will get slobery.


and just move your tongue.








Good luck!
there's nothing to prep for Huns i had mines on dec. 27 it was awesome just go with the flow the only thing i can suggest is gum everything else comes naturally
don't plan it.


it comes naturally, relaxxx!
Watch the movie Hitch!!





You go 90% , they come 10% ;D





Works like a charm.
just do it as it comes.. theres no way to plan it.. its not gonna be how you planned it to.. it may be better just let it happen naturallyy
as you are doing you will just know how to do it just comes you will be fine just try and relax
check out this website, its where I learned lol
thats simple first make sure your breath is minted





second put your lips toward him, he you want more use your tongue
hmmm just let it go naturally and try to relax
do what feels right

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