*Wait for the right moment.*
There鈥檚 usually no hurry for a kiss, especially a first kiss with someone, so be patient and wait until the mood is right. Some good times are at a romantic movie after or during an on screen kiss, walking in the moonlight, or during a particularly intimate conversation. Wait until the two of you are alone so that the other person will feel more comfortable and so that nobody will see if your attempt to kiss is rejected. Many girls (and guys) don't want to be asked: they prefer that you be confident enough to take a risk and just go for it. One way to do so is to stop whatever you鈥檙e doing and silently look into the person鈥檚 eyes for a moment or two. Touch their face, then gently pull him/her toward you for a kiss. If the person pulls away or hesitates at any time, he or she is not ready for a kiss. If this happens, tell them that you want to give them a hug and go for that.
*Approach for the kiss.*
Approach slowly and smoothly. Depending on your starting position you may need only to turn your head, or you may need to lean in a bit. You may want to use your hands to gently urge your partner鈥檚 body or head into position鈥攜ou just want to guide his or her movement a little, you don鈥檛 want to forcibly move any part of his or her body or hold your partner in an uncomfortable position鈥攂ut in general you just want to position yourself correctly and let your partner meet you. As you near your partner鈥檚 lips, maintain eye contact. You may want to close your eyes after your lips meet to heighten the sensuality of the kiss (and to avoid staring at the pores on his or her face).
*Kiss gently.*
There are many kinds of kisses, from quick pecks to sweet, passionate kisses. There鈥檚 a time and place for all of these, but your first kiss with someone should be gentle and romantic. Don鈥檛 press your mouth onto your partner鈥檚--just let your lips meet--and don鈥檛 try to push your tongue into his or her mouth. When your lips meet, pucker them and give a kiss, then smile and pull away a little, keeping your head close to your partner鈥檚. If your partner moves to kiss you back or seems to like it and doesn鈥檛 pull away, go in for another kiss, this one a little firmer and longer. Put your hands on their face or around their shoulders.
*Make the kiss the reason for the kiss.*
Some people seem to treat kisses as nothing more than a prelude to something else, and will try to quickly move into French kissing. Good kissers concentrate on the kiss, and they kiss, at least seemingly, expecting nothing more. Enjoy the experience, and don鈥檛 move too fast. Live in the moment. You will not kiss as well if your mind is somewhere else. For example, when kissing, try to avoid thoughts like ';What is he/she thinking about?';, ';Do I look good tonight?';, or anything else. Don't be too self-conscious, or have ANY thoughts outside the kiss if you can help it. Instead, concentrate on the way the other person's lips feel against yours.First Kiss advice?!!?!!?!!?!!?
go walking in the park or something and pretend to fall.
or you can like ';trip'; and when he catches you look up and kiss him
You don't ';make it';.
You wait and let it happen!
Don't rush romance!
It doesn't work that way ;)
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