First kiss advice? I will choose a best answer! PLEASE BE VERY DESCRIPTIVE!!?

Okay, so me and my girlfriend are both 13. we have been going out for about 3 weeks and i really want to kiss her. she wants me to too. when should i do it? we hang out together a lot at friends houses and she cuddles with me on the couch , i put my arm around her and she rests on my shoulder/chest and we will hold hands and she will hold onto my arm.I can tell she doesnt mind me getting close to her, she likes it too. We also go into town together where everyone goes to chill. But its crowded there alot sometimes. How should i approach her? should i ask her for permission or just do the whole staring thing then go in for it..what should i do after we kiss...how should i kiss her? like i know that im noty gonna use the toungue...but yeah.......like..ive heard that you should go for one lip...but im not sure ...





I appreciate the help!First kiss advice? I will choose a best answer! PLEASE BE VERY DESCRIPTIVE!!?
hey i am 13 too. well. you dont really have to say anything just start convs. then when your done look in her eyes and you will know cause you will stop talking and just lean in. then when your done look in her eyes again if you get THAT MOMENT againg go in for another but if she looks satisifed just stop and talk again! but i would go to a movie? or mabe like where i live they have highschool football games EVERYONE goes to them i was sitting on the bleacher w/ my bf and it was like everything stopped and i was only with him. my friend had her first kiss there too. so just find a place..i suggest the movies or like a football, baseball, etc game!!


hope i helped!!!!


%26lt;3 nina!First kiss advice? I will choose a best answer! PLEASE BE VERY DESCRIPTIVE!!?
if it is your first kiss then i suggest you kiss her cheek instead of lips.


anyway you should make it romantic and it should be like sunset and then like tell her that the sunset is beautiful and then be like but not as beautiful as you. then after she says something look her in the eyes and smile and kiss her cheek.
The staring thing and going for it worked for me xD It only lasts for a second if that. Maybe do it will you are cuddling? After the fact you will be smiling, guaranteed, so there won't be much to say. Honestly, I thought that it would make things different, but it doesn't really. If anything it should improve the direction of the relationship.
when you guys are cuddling and you look straight at eachother even for a split second...suprise her by going in for a kiss. you dont have to make-out with her or french kiss her....just maybe move your lips a little and stay like that for as long as you two feel comfortable. good luck!!
your on the right track about not using tongue and all. but yeah just ask her to hang out at your house where its just you two and then when you get talking and all just go for it unsuspectedly. gently place your had on her neck/chek. just go with what you feel
don't do it in front of other people, make it special. you two should be alone. it will just come naturally, you really shouldn't have to think all that much. make sure that afterwords though that you don't rush into things too fast. then things get very messy :b
lol idk man but i would say just go or it! i mean make sure u really like her and all because your first kiss is special. lol. other than that just go for it and have fun. :).....wow that was a lil creepy lol
Next time you see her and Your leaving and going home or w/e be like oh i forgot something and kiss her.
lol awww how cute.


you should start off by hugging her, then kiss her cheek slowly.


slowly get closer to her lips and then kiss them. she'll kiss back :]





goodluck !
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aww this is sweet. You know when the moment is right then just go for it.
Go to wikihow.com kissing is like natural just do it.
im with the first guy go to girlsteachguys.com
go to a really special place. like in the park or somewhere where you 2 really like to go. maybe you shouldn go to a place where they have music playing. like out to dinner or like music in the park they have that sometimes. and then just dance with her and then when you do a slow song just take your time and have fun. but when you are leaving her home you walk a little bit away and then say wait i forgot something and then do a long kiss like 2 or 3 seconds long. and if she liked that then do it again. then give her a hug and then leave ( for real)
hello...i just recently started dating a girl, and we are in high school. We have been going out for about a week, but we have been very close for about a month and a bit. We just recently had our first real kiss of the relationship, and it was better than i could have imagined. I know I wasn't perfect, but I also know that she loved it anyway. Seriously, just don't think about it too much and do what feels right. I am sure that it will be very natural. I was worried about my first kiss with this girl, because i wanted it to be special, but everything turned out great.


If you can, get together with her in one of your houses, and get away form your parents. Turn on a scary movie, and hold her tight. Take her hands and run your fingers up and down her palms and fingers. She might eventually move your hands over her chest. Eventually, it should just feel like you are both wanting it, but if it doesn't happen, before you have to go, stand up and hug her and hold her. Run your lips down her neck, you should eventually get to her lips, and it should be great.


If you can't get this to happen, I wouldn't suggest just asking her permission, as it could get awkward, but if you don't think that she will care, and if it feels right, then go ahead. I think that it is better to always leave the first kiss until the end of the date (or whatever you are doing) because then she has time to think about how much she wants it to happen again, as well as letting you get away if it does go bad without having to endure too much awkwardness. After you kiss, just hold her and tell her you love her. Talk about normal stuff, or just hug and kiss some more. As for the how, i will talk more about the neck, and it should just be really easy. Sort of close your lips around her's. It is hard to explain, but im sure you get it. I'm sure it will be good when it happens though. If you really want, lots of movies have kissing scenes, and there are lots of places on the internet to go for help.


Maybe kiss up and down the side of her neck. My girl is ticklish there, and i know she loves it. Make sure that you are alone, or that it is only her closest friends with you when it happens. Believe it or not, it is very likely that she is just as nervous as you. As long as you are both comfortable and you both really care about each other, it should be fine. You could also think about roses at the start of the evening (or whenever). When i asked my love out, i gave her roses, and she thought it was very nice and all her friends think that it was ';cute'; of me. They all said that they wish that their boyfriends had done the same.


Basically, if she knows you care about her, nothing could really mess things up, even a kiss.
Well since i being your first kiss, you probably don't want to do it where everyone will be able to see and talk about it. But it would probably be a good idea if you guys didn't do it in public, but you know, whatever floats your boat.





When you do decide to kiss her, make sure you have her focus on you rather then others or anything else around you. There is no right or wrong way to kiss, so you don't have to worry about doing it the ';wrong'; way. Don't ask her. Just do it. Basically when you guys are together, just look at her with honest eyes and just kiss her. There is no technique. Its just natural.